TRANSFORMATIONAL COACH & MENTOR
Turn Your Relationship into a Paradise of Healing and Love
What if every time you were about to meet your Beloved, your heart fluttered with the same joy and anticipation as if it was your first date?
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What if your relationship became a path to your deepest healing and spiritual awakening as an act of service to your families, communities and all humanity?
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What if moments of conflict didn't scare you anymore but actually excited you because you knew the way to alchemize emotional pain into an even deeper intimacy with one another?
With the right guidance, the right perspective, the right practices, and your honest willingness to show up for the healing of one another's heart, these understandings are not only possible, they are inevitable.
Is your relationship missing that original spark of love or are you longing to go deeper?
In our times, we no longer need one another for survival in relationship. This fact calls us to connect with a much deeper meaning and purpose of being together. Relationship is a very special experience of life in that it offers us the opportunity to understand ourselves on a profoundly deep level and to support one another in healing the deepest core wounds of our Heart. If you find yourself stuck in cycles of disconnection, conflict, mediocrity from daily routine or yearning for that spark, passion and fire that once came naturally, you're not alone and you're in the right place.
About The Art of True Intimacy
The Art of True Intimacy is a three month online journey specifically for committed couples that are ready to heal, awaken and evolve together in truth, authenticity and love. The course seamlessly combines ancient spiritual traditions with modern healing modalities into one clear and coherent path. It is the culmination and celebration of Ian and Valentina’s many years of study, practice and personal experience in relationship and full dedication their spiritual path and healing journey.
Our Unique Approach
The course integrates a thorough and experiential understanding of:
☸Ancient Tantric Ritual
☸ Shadow Work and Embodied Shadow Integration
☸ Modern Embodied Relationship Therapy
☸ Embodied Sacred Intimacy Practice
☸ Inner Child Work
☸ Trauma Release
☸ Somatic Psychotherapy
☸ The Vision of Non Duality and Advaita Vedanta
If you and your partner feel ready and are hearing the call for this sacred work and to truly deepen on the path of conscious partnership, this is your ceremony, this is your space and we'd love to have you.
If you have any questions or would like to meet us, we'd love to meet you too and you can book a call with us using the link below before signing up. We hope to have you with us. ​​
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With Love and Presence,
Ian and Valentina
The consciousness in you and the consciousness in me, apparently two, really one, seeks unity, and that is love.
- Nisargardatta Maharaj
What You Will Learn
☸ How to create a shared and unique vision for your relationship to give direction and clarity on your path of healing, maturing and awakening together. ​
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☸ The fundamental importance of self inquiry and the yoga of self awareness on the path of relationship.
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☸ Proper structure and tools for communication and charge clearing so that conflict can go from something that used to be burdensome or re traumatizing to something that heals and brings you closer together.
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☸ How to make your relationship a path to spiritual awakening, your deepest healing and embodied maturation.
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☸ How to open to divine love and the experience of spiritual union through traditional ancient Tantric rituals.
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☸ A deep understanding of how your childhood wounds and the relationship with your caretakers is directly affecting your relationship and how to support one another in the healing of those core wounds.
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☸ How to embody and liberate your unique masculine and feminine qualities as powerful gifts to amplify sexual polarity, intimacy, attraction and love for each other.
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☸ The art of how to give and receive needs and desires from one another both sexually and in daily life in a clear, transparent and healing way.
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☸ How to express clearly your needs, boundaries and desires without triggering or wounding one another.
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☸ How to heal the fear of expressing your truth or asking for what you truly want and need from each other.
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☸ How to understand what your psychological shadows are, what role they play in the relationship and how to integrate and embrace them in a healthy and safe way together.
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☸ How to self reflect and take radical responsibility for the healing of your emotions, trauma, triggers and the way in which they affect the space of the relationship.
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☸ How to co regulate each others nervous systems through, breath, touch and embodied practice.
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☸ How to transform love making into a sacred ritual for both healing and spiritual awakening.
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☸ How to sublimate the sexual energy into multi-orgasmic states, deeper expressions of love, compassion and higher states of consciousness. ​​​​​​​
Lovers don't finally meet somewhere. They are in each other all along.
- Rumi
Course Structure
The course will take place over 12 weeks with 12 essential topics that will shine light on the path of how to both heal and awaken through the art of relationship. The deeper you lean into the practices and course material, the deeper your transformation will be. Keep in mind, this course is an intensive, it is designed to support a fundamental transformational process in yourself and in the relationship. Below is the general time commitments and all that will be included in the course:
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☸ There will be 12 2hr live group calls (once per week for 12 weeks) on zoom with the exceptions of the first and last call which will be 2.5hrs. There will also be 3 1.5hr men's and women's group calls. Each call will include the introduction of a topic followed by an embodied partner or group practice to fully experience the teaching. This will then be followed by a group coaching and Q&A session with Valentina and Ian.
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☸ On several weeks a 20 minute lecture video will be given to deepen your knowledge of the topic. Videos will also include a questions which you will answer and post in the community chat to help you self reflect and integrate the teachings. You will also receive feedback and support from Ian and Valentina.
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☸ Every week you will have a recorded embodied practice or assignment to be done as a couple and on some weeks guided practice specifically for the masculine and feminine to be done solo.
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☸ Every two weeks you will have a new support couple who you will have a 30 minute call with at least once within the three weeks to check in about what's arising with the course material, supporting each other in whatever way arises and generally establishing connection and friendships with other couples in this sacred work.
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☸ By call number eight we will start the process of initiating you in how to do a proper Tantric ritual at home once you've been through the weeks of inner work and preparation. This will include detailed guided videos on four specific rituals, how to set them up, how to perform them and all the elements and instructions on how to create an altar and sacred space for ritual. From that time on you will have 1 ritual per week to perform at home.
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☸ There will be a community Telegram group chat in which all have the space to share about their processes, post your weekly Heartwork questions, ask questions and get live feedback from Ian and Valentina about any of the work. ​
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☸ There will be an online course platform where all the lecture videos, practice videos/audios, ritual videos and call recordings will be kept and accessible at all times. ​
Your relationship is a portal to the deepest healing of your soul. When you see it as such, you're whole life can change.
The warm and radiant yes of the heart is perfect, like the sun, in bringing all things to life and nourishing all that is truly human.
-John Welwood
Call Schedule
All live calls will take place on zoom. Because the course is 80% embodied practice it is important that your space is set up for practice on every call. This means being seated on the floor with proper cushions and comfortability with plenty of space around you to move. You should be clearly visible with proper lighting so that we can see both of you from the chest up and also be able to hear you clearly. Please also make sure you have a 15 minute flexibility window for the end of the calls in case the call runs a little longer or in case you and your partner need a moment to integrate before going into your next activity.
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☸ Group Call 1: March 25th // 6pm - 8:30pm CET
☸ Group Call 2: April 1st // 6pm - 8pm CET
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☸ Men's/Women's Call 1 : April 3rd // 6pm - 7:30pm CET
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☸ Group Call 3: April 8th // 6pm - 8pm CET
☸ Group Call 4: April 15th // 6pm - 8pm CET
☸ Group Call 5: April 22nd // 6pm - 8pm CET
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☸ Men's/Women's Call 2 : April 23rd // 6pm - 7:30pm CET
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☸ Group Call 6: April 29th // 6pm - 8pm CET
☸ Group Call 7: May 6th // 6pm - 8pm CET
☸ Group Call 8: May 13th // 6pm - 8pm CET
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☸ Men's/Women's Call 3 : May 14th // 6pm - 7:30pm CET
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☸ Group Call 9: May 20th // 6pm - 8pm CET
☸ Group Call 10: May 27th // 6pm - 8pm CET
☸ Group Call 11: June 3rd // 6pm - 8pm CET
☸ Group Call 12: June 10th // 6pm - 8:30pm CET​
Your relationship is a portal to the deepest healing of your soul. When you see it as such, you're whole life can change.
Meet Your Guides
Ian and Valentina have each been fully dedicated to the spiritual path for 12+ years. They are devotees to each other and most importantly to the essence of love consciousness that lives in each of them. In this total dedication to the path of awakening through the love for each other, they are also in full service to support others on the same journey of relearning how to heal and awaken through the path of relationship.
Through many failures in relationship despite having been on the spiritual path for so many years, a deep aspiration grew in them to understand more deeply the root of all of this dysfunction they witnessed in their own journeys and also in their house holds growing up. Individually they explored this through intensive study, practice and deep inner work for many years. When they came together, it was in the spirit of that aspiration to truly embody the teachings from the mystics and Self remembrance, as well as the experts in the fields of trauma, relationship therapy and sacred intimacy work and finally learn to walk relationship as a spiritual path of full commitment and surrender.
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Since coming together they created their flagship workshop and online course "True Intimacy" and "The Art of True Intimacy" and over the past years have taught and supported couples on this journey of healing and awakening all over the world. They are also now engaged and will be married in August of 2025!
Both of them have extensive experience in yoga and meditation having spent collectively over 5 years in silent solitary retreats. Valentina has advanced expertise in the path of Tantra having been initiated over 10 years ago by a master and now teaching the art of sexual Tantra, Tantric relationship and Tantric ritual for just as long. As a testament to the dedication and power of her path and practice, in her early 20's she was diagnosed with MS (multiple sclerosis) and was for a period of time unable to use her legs or see. Through great challenge she persevered in intensive spiritual practice for 5 years (and continuing) arriving to the point of becoming completely symptom free with no signs of the disease without any western medical treatment.
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Ian compliments her very well with over 6 years of practice, study and coaching experience in somatic psychotherapy, embodied shadow work, trauma release, couples therapy, embodied intimacy work and men's work in addition to over a decade in practicing and teaching yoga and meditation.
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Together, Ian and Vale have integrated the worlds of somatic psychology, relationship therapy, trauma release, ancient Tantric Ritual, Tantra, men's, women's, couples and intimacy work into the vision of non duality to bring a complete understanding of the true significance of intimate relationship as a spiritual path of healing and transformation.
Today, Ian and Vale are based in Longeval France serving as teachers at Hridaya Yoga under the guidance of their beloved teacher Sahajananda. They also continue to travel giving workshops worldwide when they are not at Hridaya or on long silent retreats in India. ​
"Love is not just a feeling, but a state of total surrender to God."
-A. Helwa
The Final Steps
Before signing up, make sure that this course is the right fit for you in terms of the time commitment. Below are the details of how much time this course will take each week and a few other details to know.​
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☸ Every Week:
- 2hr live group call
- 1hr of embodied practice both individual and partner (done in your own time)
- 20 minutes of journaling
- 20 minute lecture video (on most weeks)
- Every 3rd week, 1.5hr men's/women's circle call
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☸ This course is designed for couples who are committed to one another and to their inner work. It is also very important that you are in person with one another for the duration of the course. If you know you will be separate from one another for more than three weeks, especially in the second half of the course, it would be best to wait for another time to join us.
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☸ If you are experiencing extreme difficulty in your relationship and are joining this course as way to try to save the connection and work through what's alive, we just ask that you make a firm commitment to stay together until the end of the course and see the process all the way through. We ask you for this commitment unless of course your physical safety is being compromised by being together.
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☸ Same sex and queer couples are most welcome to join us.
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☸ If you have any questions you need answered before deciding to join the course, send us a message HERE. Or GIVE US A CALL. ​​​​​​
Cancelation Policy
In the case of a major medical or family emergency that keeps you from being able to participate you may cancel for a full refund (minus processing fees).
If you need to cancel for any other reason, a partial refund maybe issued depending on the circumstance and no matter what you can use your tuition to put towards another future course with us or use it for private sessions. ​​​​​​​
Join Us
Making this step to heal, to open, to learn to let love shine again in its purest form is the answer to our ancestor's prayer and all the wounded hearts of this planet. It is also the answer to the unspoken prayer of those who will come after us. Your work here in this course is not just for you, but rather an act of profound devotion and service to the return of love everywhere. May we rise together and relearn how to be the very love that all are seeking. OM MANI PADME HUM. ​​​​​​​
25% EARLY BIRD DISCOUNT
AVAILABLE UNTIL FEBRUARY 17th
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Couple's Basic Plan
2,700$ÂIncludes the full course and all course materialsÂCouple's Basic 3x Payment Plan
900$Every monthFull Course and all course materials includedValid for 3 months- Pay $900 per month for 3 months
Radha Krishna Package
4,200$ÂFull Course + 3x 2hr Private Calls with Vale and IanÂRadha Krishna Package 3x Payment Plan
1,400$Every monthFull Course + 3x 2hr Private Calls with Vale and IanValid for 3 months- Pay $1,400 for 3 months