TRANSFORMATIONAL COACH & MENTOR
WELCOME DEAREST SEEKER
Welcome. I’m Ian Wilkes.
You're here in this moment because there’s a yearning in your heart for love, for freedom, or maybe both. Maybe you’ve felt your whole life like you don’t quite fit in. Like you don’t belong. Like life itself isn’t trustable or safe. Maybe you had a difficult childhood. Maybe you’ve chased your dreams and ended up burned out or disappointed. Maybe you’ve tried therapy. Maybe you consider yourself spiritual. Maybe you’ve had a practice for years, but still find yourself caught in waves of depression, self-doubt, irritability, or loneliness. Maybe you’re struggling in relationships, or feel like you’re never quite good enough. Maybe you’ve tried to digest the endless stream of messages from coaches, therapists, influencers, or spiritual teachers and somehow you feel even more confused about how to truly walk the path of healing, whether alone or in partnership.
First of all: you’re not alone in that. And second: you’ve come to the right place. The good news is that every internal struggle, every experience of deep emotional pain, can be brought into harmony. Not by fixing your external world. Not by prescription drugs. But by working directly with what’s alive inside you with presence, care, and truth.
I work with men, women, and couples who are ready to turn inward, not to escape life, but to return more fully to it. Whether the doorway is relationship, grief, trauma, anxiety, or disconnection, the medicine is one: presence.
And the path, we walk it together.
UPCOMING RETREATS & COURSES
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WAYS TO JOURNEY HOME TOGETHER
Relational Healing
The path of relationship is one of the most beautiful and also challenging ways in our which our soul longs to heal and remember it's true nature. Relationship brings our deepest most vulnerable childhood wounds and traumas to the surface and with the right tools, practices, understandings and proper guidance, relationship can go from the greatest difficulty you experience in life, to your greatest joy and path to ultimate freedom.
Men's Work
Mature brotherhood and heart centered awakened masculine leadership is a crucial missing piece in our culture today. Men of this age feel inadequate, isolated, confused or the need to prove something at the cost of their own and others well being.
The epidemic of masculine suffering and confusion is at an all time high and is in direct correlation to environmental destruction and the highest divorce rate in history.
Silent Retreats
The basis and direction of any truly transformative or authentic healing work must at some point acknowledge the ground of consciousness, pure being itself. This understanding is confirmed in the poems and teachings of every truly awakened spiritual master or authentic spiritual lineage. It is the very purpose and end result of all my work, the revelation of the simplicity and freedom of pure beingness that you already are.
1:1 MENTORSHIP
This is the most intimate and effective way for us to work together. In this space we go straight the root of your core wounds, truama and tendencies. I help you bring a complete healing to your being not only at the level of the psyche but somatically at the level of the body, nervous system and spiritual dimension of your being.
If you are ready to truly transform your experience of life from struggle, confusion, pain, and feeling unworthy into harmony, peace and internal freedom, reach out and let's get started.
IT’S NEVER TOO LATE TO MAKE THINGS RIGHT
I'm not here to sell you big packages of sessions with me and send you in an endless loop of speaking about your history and giving you some affirmations to repeat and journaling work, I'm not a talk therapist or regular life coach. I'm here to work with you as little as possible, yet directly and precisely. I'm here to take you to the root of the stories and structures that cause you pain and bring you true and lasting resolution, peace in your heart and the remembrance of who you truly are.
The nuances of our traumas and delusion are all different and yet the nature of the psychology behind them is exactly the same. Once you can pierce through the untruth of your mind through inquiry and bring light to the root of its structures, release the tension your body has built from the years of belief in those structures, integrate and embody the insights from this process, and maintain the direct experience of knowing who you truly are beyond all of it, love and freedom will be revealed as your natural state of being.
